There are so many things out there that people don't know how to define. It gets confusing, no lie. If you're confused about these terms, the people you tell things to get confused and it turns into a vicious cycle of unknowingness. Its annoying, its confusing, its just fucking terrible in some cases. So here I am. I shall define these things for you. Sure, there will be disagreements, there will be tears, there may even be some hardcore arguments on the difference between "snuggling" and "cuddling". If you disagree, that's fine, but some people need these definitions to properly define what the hell is going on with them. Listen/read and learn.
Cuddling/To Cuddle
Definition: This term is used for two people sleeping next to each other, usually in the spooning position. During cuddling, no sexual acts are made/done. The term is meant to be used in somewhat intimate settings where two people who may be involved romantically sleep comfortably next to one another.
Used in a sentence: "I just want to cuddle tonight."
Snuggling/To Snuggle
Definition: To snuggle is quite different from that of cuddling. When two people snuggle, they may kiss or do other sexual acts that may lead to actual intercourse. Usually after snuggling, cuddling occurs before sleep.
Used in a sentence: "Let's get our snuggle on tonight."
Texting (in terms of relationships)
Definition: Once two people meet at a party or other sort of gathering where phone numbers are usually exchanged, they tend to text for a few days before actually seeing each other again. This is the "texting" phase of a relationship. When texting, there may or may not be other possible partners for each person in the couple.
Used in a sentence: "Oh John is just the new guy I'm texting" or "I'm texting like twelve bajillion guys/girls right now, high five!"
Talking (in terms of relationships)
Definition: Talking is the next step after texting. Once two people hang out again and have determined feelings for one another, they are considered to be "talking". It is customary to only "talk" to one or two people at the same time.
Used in a sentence: "Jan and I are just talking right now, I can't wait to ask her out."
Dating
Definition: Once you actually go on a date (no boys and girls, this does not mean having someone in your bedroom for a make out session) you are considered to be dating. Once again, you should probably only "date" one person at a time. But I'm not here to judge you.
Used in a sentence: "After I took Juanita out to see that new horror movie, I'd consider us to be dating."
Seeing Someone
Definition: This is very similar to "dating". When you go out a few times and hang out with some of your friends together, it is sometimes better to say that you are "seeing" the other person.
Used in a sentence: "No, I don't have a boyfriend, but I am seeing someone."
Together
Definition: Boyfriend/Girlfriend. This is your main squeeze. You guys have changed the facebook relationship status to "in a relationship" and see only the other person. Unless you're a douche.
Used in a sentence: "Yeah, Joel and I are together."
On A Break
Definition: Two people are still together, just exploring other aspects of your life. Personally, I believe if you are in need of a break, a breakup would probably be a better option. No point in keeping things in your life that aren't needed. During a break some believe it is acceptable to explore other romantic relationships. This is debatable among yourselves. Those on a break should probably discuss the terms of the break before continuing further.
Used in a sentence: "George and I are on a break, so I think I'll go window shopping for a new bo right quick."
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